Women wish to be loved, but they also wish to be physically attractive to men and to be the objects of strong sexual desire on the part of males. Give the female animal in your wife its due. Observe her sometime, perhaps in the kitchen, perhaps while reading in the living room, perhaps while she is shopping. Note how her body moves beneath its dress. Consider her ankles, her calves, the back of her knees, the thighs of her. Consider her hips, the sweet belly of her and the lovely vulnerabilities of her breasts, lovely and swelling, marking her, like other curvatures, even fully clothed, as female. Consider, too, the soft shoulders of her, her throat, the way the hair falls upon her neck. Consider, too, her carriage, and her head, and the expressions on her face, her eyes and her mouth. Look at her carefully, but rather as a stranger. See her as a woman, not known to you. Then, article by article, in your mind, remove her clothing, slowly, not hurrying, exquisitely revealing each marvelous inch of her. Only you then need to know that she is nude in the kitchen, that she reads naked, that she shops, with her metal shopping cart, considering cans of vegetables and reaching for boxes of cereal, without a stitch of clothing on her body. Consider her. She is your wife. Consider her carefully. Is such a woman not worth having? She is your wife, of course, but, considered objectively, is such a wench not well worth raping? I expect the answer is affirmative. You follow her home. She is yours to get.