There are hundreds of ways to tie women. Many are obvious. It is interesting that the sight of a naked, bound woman is extremely sexually provocative to a male. This probably has to do with evolution, with capture and rape, etc. Every man, from time to time, fantasizes complete power over a woman. In his blood he wants it. This doubtless goes back to the caves. Those who were less possessive, less commanding and lustful failed, in large numbers, to propagate their kind. Any man who senses the sexuality of the bound, naked woman is responding to the heritage of the hunter and captor. If such thoughts are not “sexy” to him, he is a very unusual male. Indeed, such males may not exist. It is important for a woman, too, to realize that there is a predator in any male. This either worries her or scandalizes her, or stimulates her sexually. Perhaps it does all three. In female sexual fantasy, of course, she commonly fantasizes herself as the helpless object of such predation. We are not the only ones who date back to primeval hunting packs. It might be useful for a woman to understand not only that her body is stimulating to a male, but her body in certain contexts, attitudes and postures. I do not know whether she will like this or not, but her body lying naked and bound at his feet is often several hundred percent more sexually exciting to him than it is in her tweed suit critically examining pictures at the Museum of Modern Art. (It is exciting there, too, of course, particularly if she seems to know what she is doing. Intelligence is extremely sexy in a woman. Stupid women are bores, not worth the trouble of capturing. Imagine a highly intelligent woman lying naked and bound at your feet, like any other slave. (What a prize!) Even something like a rope tied about her ankle and knotted in bed can be sexually stimulating. The reasons for this seem fairly obvious. They suggest the female as captive, as being in the male’s power. This, for better or worse, but as a fact, is extremely provocative, sexually, to most males. In their heat, they commonly wish to own their women, to literally possess them. When one speaks of “having” a woman there is a symbolic undertone here that is more honest than, say, “engaging in intercourse” with her. A brief experiment, to test this sort of thing out, on the woman’s part, would be to ask her husband, one night, to tie her hands behind her back, when he makes love to her. He will probably demur. But, be persistent. And note how he looks at you, as his excitement mounts. Have you seen him look at you in years in this fashion? And, you, how long does it take you to become warm and wet to him, how long does it take you, this time, to attain orgasm?