Roxanne asked me once if I could explain why so many men request this service for she was blown away at how common this desire was within the male gender. To be perfectly honest and blunt about it, most of these men wish that an older woman would have had sex with them when they were boys. They often fantasize that it was an experienced older woman who taught them how to sexually please a woman. Some of these men never felt comfortable being the aggressor that society dictates they be when it comes to the opposite sex. They prefer to be passive and helpless when having sex. The Adult Woman/young boy fantasy is a place where they can be innocent and passive while worshipping and discovering the mystery that is the female in all her beauty and authority.

Unfortunately, a lot of the erotic literature that deals with these fantasies has been censored by our society under the rightful concern and need to protect children from child pornography and child molestation. The fear of these very strict laws prevent most new adult erotic literature that deals with the Adult woman/young boy fantasy from being created. That is too bad because this particular fantasy is not about a little boy being molested but rather an adult man hearkening back to when women were in authority over him and his coming of age sexually. It is sad that society does not wish to understand this common male desire and draw the clear distinctions. Most of these men wish that they were the helpless victims of a loving and authoritative woman. Such erotica needs to be free from censorship as it might assist men in discovering more about their submissive desires.

Of course, this common male fantasy is still expressed in some tastefully written mainstream books and movies. Men have told me about their sexual arousal when reading about or watching the Older woman/younger man scenes in “The Boys of Summer”, “The Graduate”, “The Summer of 42”, “My Tutor” and other such books and films. While such scenes primarily deal with teenager and young adult male encounters with older and more experienced women, some literature does push the envelope. The purpose of such erotica is not intended to encourage a premature sexual encounter between an adult woman and an under-aged boy, but rather for the purpose of expressing this common submissive desire, which is within most red-blooded males.

Society never learns that when something is taboo or forbidden, it only makes the forbidden fruit more desirable. Of course all child pornography must be banned and never produced as society needs to protect children from being exploited but adult erotica that deals with this natural and common part of a boy's adolescence needs to be uncensored and better understood. The censorship that is taking place today is only fanning this fantasy within men, as one cannot censor the submissive male's mind. That is why men seek out an understanding and caring woman to assist them in exploring this fantasy within a safe environment. It is actually a healthy thing for this fantasy to be role played between two consenting adults. The male never got to experience this taboo fantasy as a boy but he can live it through role-playing it with an Adult woman. That is why Age Play is commonly requested by submissive men when they call a Female Domination phone service or when they visit a professional Dominatrix.