It has also been my observation that the marriages that successfully incorporate cuckolding are the ones that first enjoyed many years of mutual monogamous sex. Denise and Gary were married for almost twenty years before they engaged in cuckolding. Anna has a similar story to tell.

“I have been living a FemDom lifestyle with my husband for over twenty years. He introduced it to me about five years into our marriage and I embraced it and have been practicing it ever since. We have had our challenges, like raising three children while we kept our lifestyle a secret from them, but overall this lifestyle has been a tremendous amount of fun and sexual fulfillment for the both of us. I think it is fair to say that we have tried almost everything as it relates to FemDom and D&S over these past twenty years.

Lately, however, I felt that we had gotten into a bit of a FemDom rut.

The kids are grown and on their own and it is just the two of us. It was liberating to have the entire house to ourselves at first and believe me we took full advantage of it. Nevertheless, after twenty years I felt we needed something extra to take us to a new level in our FemDom marriage.

The one FemDom activity that we never pursued but I was reading about was cuckolding. The thought of cuckolding my husband both excited me and made me feel uneasy at the same time. After all, I had not been with another man other than my husband for going on twenty-eight years. I was nineteen the last time I had sex with someone other than my husband. I really had no desire to ever bring another person into our sex lives but the more I thought about it, the more I knew that this is what we needed.

My husband is a good submissive but after twenty-five years of marriage, he takes me for granted. He knows me inside and out and he is very good at topping me from below by pushing my buttons. I needed to do something that shook his world and at the same time displayed my ultimate authority over him. I researched a number of activities and I came to the conclusion that I needed to make him a cuckolded husband.

With a renewed goal and vision for our relationship, I began to dominate my husband on a more frequent basis. All things became new and fresh just as they were in the beginning of our D&S lifestyle. The spankings, the discipline, the forced feminization, his domestic and sexual service of me all became more intense and exciting due to my new goal. Each time I dominated him I probed his mind about cuckolding, telling him that I was going to pursue it and that there was nothing he could do about it.