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Contents ( 112)
  1. Dedication
  2. Epigraph
  3. May 19, 2015, 5:59 A.M.
  4. Home
  5. 1 | Karina
  6. 2007
  7. 2 | Jaya
  8. 2008
  9. 3 | Keith
  10. April 2009
  11. 4 | Jaya
  12. May 2009
  13. 5 | Karina
  14. June 2009
  15. 6 | Prem
  16. 7 | Jaya
  17. June 2009
  18. 8 | Karina
  19. June 2009
  20. 9 | Keith
  21. June 2009
  22. 10 | Karina
  23. July 2009
  24. 11 | Jaya
  25. July 2009
  26. 12 | Karina
  27. August 2009
  28. 13 | Keith
  29. August 2009
  30. 14 | Karina
  31. January 2010
  32. 15 | Keith
  33. May 2010
  34. 16 | Karina
  35. 2011–2013
  36. 17 | Prem
  37. Away
  38. 18 | The Olanders
  39. September 2013
  40. 19 | Karina
  41. September 2013
  42. 20 | Karina
  43. January 2014
  44. 21 | Keith
  45. August 2014
  46. 22 | Jaya
  47. August 2014
  48. 23 | Prem
  49. 24 | Karina
  50. September 2014
  51. 25 | Karina
  52. October 2014
  53. 26 | Karina
  54. October 2014
  55. 27 | Karina
  56. November 2014
  57. 28 | The Olanders
  58. December 2014
  59. 29 | Prem
  60. Sanctuary
  61. 30 | Karina
  62. January 1, 2015
  63. 31 | Karina
  64. January 2, 2015
  65. 32 | Karina
  66. January 3, 2015
  67. 33 | The Olanders
  68. February 2015
  69. 34 | Karina
  70. February 2015
  71. 35 | Prem
  72. 36 | Serotina
  73. February 2015
  74. 37 | Serotina
  75. March 2015
  76. 38 | The Olanders
  77. April 2015
  78. 39 | Serotina
  79. April 2015
  80. 40 | Serotina
  81. April 2015
  82. 41 | Serotina
  83. April 30, 2015
  84. 42 | Keith
  85. May 5, 2015
  86. 43 | Serotina
  87. May 16, 2015
  88. 44 | Jaya
  89. May 16, 2015
  90. 45 | Serotina
  91. May 17, 2015
  92. 46 | Serotina
  93. May 18, 2015
  94. 47 | Prem
  95. Found
  96. 48 | The Olanders
  97. May 19, 2015, 12:30 P.M.
  98. 49 | The Olanders
  99. May 2016
  100. 50 | Prem
  101. Acknowledgments
  102. P.S. Insights, Interviews & More . . .*
  103. About the Author
  104. Meet Shilpi Somaya Gowda
  105. About the Book
  106. Behind the Book
  107. Read On
  108. An Excerpt from The Golden Son
  109. Praise for The Shape of Family
  110. Also by Shilpi Somaya Gowda
  111. Copyright
  112. About the Publisher

“You all live together?” she asked.

Micah nodded. “Twelve of us. There’s space for maybe one or two more, but that’s it. We’re being very careful about who joins us, because it’s a very special thing we’re creating. A new way of living harmoniously, with the earth and with one another.”

“Like . . . a commune?” she quipped, expecting him to laugh.

Micah’s expression remained serious and he cocked his head. “Well, that’s one label. There’s a reason this idea has persisted for centuries and across cultures. Commune, kibbutz, collective, cooperative—call it what you want; it’s a beautiful concept. At our core, human beings need to live together, to share our burdens and challenges, to celebrate the fruits of our labor and our victories. Extended families used to live together—grandparents, parents, aunts and uncles, dozens of kids—and in some countries, they still do. But these days . . . Well, I don’t know about you, but I don’t exactly have a big family to share my life. So, we’re creating a family. A family of sorts.”

Karina envisioned herself in her lonely apartment in Santa Barbara, Mom in their house in Los Altos, Dad’s condo in Palo Alto, his family back east, Mom’s in India—the fragmented shape of her family. Every important step she’d taken in her life—her efforts in high school, her college scholarship, James—was with the hope it would propel her further from the dysfunction and sadness of her family and give her somewhere new to belong. And yet, nothing had done that.

“I’d love to see it sometime.” The words were out of her mouth before she could consider them.

Micah smiled and grabbed a bag of rainbow carrots for his basket. “I’ll ask the others.”

* * *

When Karina showed up at the community garden on the third weekend in November, a dozen people were gathered there, the largest group she’d seen. Ericka, Jeremy, August and Zoe all greeted her with hugs, then Ericka linked her arm through Karina’s and introduced her to the others. There were several milk crates and plastic bins stacked in the center of the cluster of people and, oddly, Christmas music was playing.

Micah stepped up onto a wooden bench. “What a beautiful morning!” He held out his hands toward the sky. “Today,” he continued, “is the culmination of many months of hard work. Today we harvest the crops we’ve been tending since September. Can you believe,” he said, spreading his arms wide and looking around, “that in September, none of this was here?”

With a pang, Karina thought back to September, when she had made the drive from Los Altos down to Santa Barbara, anticipating her reunion with James. She swallowed hard and trained her attention back on Micah.

“And now, we have zucchini, tomatoes, beets, Brussels sprouts, broccoli, and much more.” Micah looked around at the group. “Each one of these plants is here because you took care of it.” When he said “you,” his eyes met Karina’s. “You nurtured it, watered it, weeded it and helped it grow.