Chapters (17)
- Cover
- Imaginative Sex
- No Fantasy, Please, We’re Americans
- Contents
- I. Imaginative Sex: The New Sexual Revolution
- II. Love, Hunters And Evolution
- III. Marriage, Sex And Normality
- IV. Sex And The Brain
- V. Marriage And The Ventilation Of Emotion
- VI. Privacy
- VII. Disease
- VIII. Requirements For Imaginative Sex
- IX. Imaginative Techniques
- X. Sensuous Fantasies: Recipes Of Pleasure
- EPILOGUE
- Appendix
- Copyright
Some further comment might be in order on the capture-in-the-dark fantasy.
Normally one will want adequate, if not strong, light in acting out fantasies. This is because the visual stimulation adds much to the joy of the fantasy, as it does to most love makings. In the capture-in-the-dark fantasy, however, we have the element of the hunt, for you do not know her location, and the delight of the catch, when you apprehend her. It appeals to the hunter in you and the quarry in her. Further, human beings have a fear, commonly, of the dark. In this case, the fears of being caught in the dark, rather than being a source of misery, are a source of stimulating excitement, for you know there is, truly, no danger. It is only delight, and sport. Similarly, the darkness, concealing the lovers from one another, makes it easier to suppose and fantasize that it is a delicious stranger whom you have caught and forced to your bed, and, for her, that it is an unknown, magnificent, mysterious male, who has captured you and will now force you, in the full perfections of your female reflexes, to respond to the enormities of his lust. He will have his way with you, and how, sweet wench!
Mechanics can vary endlessly in these fantasies. For example, the predator may or may not desire to bind his prey before he takes it to his bed, or den. He may force her to walk to the place of her rape, or he may carry her, and he might carry her in his arms, bound or unbound, or over his shoulder, bound or unbound. He may speak to her, or remain silent. She may plead with him, answered or not, or be taken in silence. If the woman wishes a gag, she should be gagged. An adequate gag consists of wadding and fastening. The wadding, commonly, consists of folded or crumpled cloth. It is held in the mouth by the fastening, which might be a handkerchief or tie; this is passed deeply between the teeth and knotted tightly behind the back of the neck. Tape might also be used, but then the entire mouth is covered. If tape is used a rubber ball may be forced into the mouth and taped within. The ball must not be tiny for fear of the danger of choking. Similarly it must, however, be large enough so that it fills the mouth and is difficult to eject. If the wife is not originally nude when captured, but wears, say, stockings, panties, garter belt and brassiere, she carries with her her own bonds and gag. Stockings are excellent for binding her, one for the hands, one for the feet. Her other garments are already removed. The garter belt is discarded; the panties serve as wadding; the brassiere fastens the wadding within her mouth. Then, secured, she is yours. Carry her to your bed.