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Chapters (17)
  1. Cover
  2. Imaginative Sex
  3. No Fantasy, Please, We’re Americans
  4. Contents
  5. I. Imaginative Sex: The New Sexual Revolution
  6. II. Love, Hunters And Evolution
  7. III. Marriage, Sex And Normality
  8. IV. Sex And The Brain
  9. V. Marriage And The Ventilation Of Emotion
  10. VI. Privacy
  11. VII. Disease
  12. VIII. Requirements For Imaginative Sex
  13. IX. Imaginative Techniques
  14. X. Sensuous Fantasies: Recipes Of Pleasure
  15. EPILOGUE
  16. Appendix
  17. Copyright

The rape fantasy is the common sexual fantasy of both men and women. This being the case it is interesting that this common fantasy is so seldom acted out in love makings. It is delicious, or can be delicious, to do so. The fact, of course, that rape is a common sexual fantasy of women does not indicate that women, in any general sense, wish to be raped. They would surely, at the very least, wish to choose the time and the place, and the circumstances and the man. Rape, as a sociological reality, is commonly an ugly, brutal, unpleasant, sickening, horrifying, vicious act. It degrades the man and it doesn’t do the woman much good either. Not only does she receive little or no pleasure, but the whole affair has no more intrinsic worth or dignity than a mugging. Further, sadly, she is likely to be brutalized and, at the least, intimidated. This is to take advantage of a weaker creature, who cannot adequately, in most cases, defend herself. The rapist, unless there are some extenuating factors, such as severe mental illness, scarcely comes up to scratch for a human being. To pick on a woman, because she is smaller and weaker, is much the same thing as to pick on a child or animal; or, it is much the same thing as a young man striking an old man; or a large, strong man beating a small, weak man; it is just something that it is not worthy to do. It is not that it need be a “sick” thing to do, though doubtless in some cases it is; it is rather that there is just no manhood in it.