My next session was with Julie. This time, she wanted to talk more about her sexual dissatisfaction with Andrew. She said that she wished for an experience with another man, if only so that she could teach Andrew how to make love to her in a way that would excite her. She asked me if I would describe some techniques to her so that she could take them home. I went along and started to explain how Andrew should manipulate her, focusing on her clitoris, until her vagina was wet, so that she was excited to have sex. Amazingly, she did not know what her clitoris was. She asked me if I could show her, to which I replied absolutely not, as it would be a breach in our relationship. She then said that Andrew told her about how I measured his penis for him and assisted in his masturbation and said that she was not getting fair treatment from me. “After all,” she said, “you don’t have to do anything to me; just show me how I could do it myself and what to teach Andrew.” I agreed with this, and Julie started to take all of her clothes off. I have to admit that I found her very attractive. She was a thin blonde with pert breasts, which were a little large for her size. I asked her to sit on the observation table, which she did with her legs spread. I took out a mirror and had her hold it between her legs as I pulled back her clitoral hood and pointed out her clitoris.

She said that she had never masturbated by rubbing it directly; instead she thought that masturbation necessarily had to have penetration. I replied no, that most women masturbate by rubbing their clitoris in combination with some penetration. As I was holding her hood back, she took her hand and began to rub her clit gently. I could see that she was getting very wet, and her eyes took on a glazed look as she moaned, “You do it, you show me.” I was also getting very excited and didn’t see what the harm was of a little more help, so I moved my finger down from her hood to the sensitive little flesh and rubbed it up and down. She began to gasp and bucked a little. I took my other hand, inserted a finger into her vagina, and rubbed the upper wall as I massaged her clit. That brought her to a new level of excitement as she continued to buck harder and harder until, in just a few minutes, she was clenching her vagina tightly around my finger in an orgasm.