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Chapters (98)
  1. Cover
  2. About the Author
  3. Foreword
  4. REMEMBER ME WHEN I AM GONE AWAY …
  5. ‘Remember me when I am gone away’
  6. Heaven-Haven
  7. Life Goes On
  8. Living Each Day
  9. ‘Death is nothing at all’
  10. Remember Me
  11. ‘I’m here for a short visit only’
  12. ‘No longer mourn for me when I am dead’
  13. If Death is Kind
  14. Fare Well
  15. When I Died
  16. ‘Because I could not stop for Death’
  17. ‘I see myself now at the end of my journey’
  18. Requiem
  19. ‘I thought I’d write my own obituary’
  20. Think of Me Then
  21. The New Path
  22. Footprints in the Sand
  23. The Book
  24. The Legacy
  25. ‘A thing of beauty is a joy for ever’
  26. When I Have Fears
  27. A Song of Living
  28. ‘I should like to be buried in a summer forest’
  29. ‘I would not have a god come in’
  30. I’ve Made Out a Will
  31. Coda
  32. Rest
  33. Prayer
  34. A TINY LAMP HAS GONE OUT IN MY TENT …
  35. ‘You must not shut the night inside you’
  36. Prayer for the Little Daughter between Death and Burial
  37. Epitaph on a Child
  38. On the Death of a Child
  39. Four Candles
  40. Too Soon
  41. Requiescat
  42. ‘Promise you won’t forget about me, ever’
  43. HE WAS MY NORTH, MY SOUTH, MY EAST AND WEST …
  44. Funeral Blues
  45. ‘Music, when soft voices die’
  46. ‘As birds are fitted to the boughs’
  47. Farewell, Sweet Dust
  48. Echo
  49. The Kaleidoscope
  50. Verses Written on Her Deathbed at Bath to Her Husband in London
  51. A Widow’s Hymn
  52. ‘Time does not bring relief’
  53. Tomorrows
  54. ‘Never more will the wind’
  55. Marriage and Death
  56. Inseparable
  57. ‘Dear gentle soul, who went so soon away’
  58. In Memoriam E. S.
  59. WORN FEATURES OF ANCESTRAL MOULD …
  60. Highland Graveyard
  61. ‘Another and another and another’
  62. ‘Fear no more the heat o’ the sun’
  63. ‘By ways remote and distant waters sped’
  64. ‘Like as the waves make towards the pebbled shore’
  65. Elegy
  66. I Wish You Enough
  67. While I Slept
  68. ‘Do not go gentle into that good night’
  69. Coat
  70. ‘The rooms and days we wandered through’
  71. The Friend
  72. ‘You can shed tears that she is gone’
  73. Inside Our Dreams
  74. Traditional Gaelic Blessing
  75. TO EVERY THING THERE IS A SEASON …
  76. ‘To every thing there is a season’
  77. ‘Our revels now are ended’
  78. So Many Different Lengths of Time
  79. ‘Come, fill the Cup’
  80. ‘Remember now thy Creator in the days of thy youth’
  81. ‘Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels’
  82. ‘Death be not proud’
  83. ‘Home is where one starts from’
  84. Dirge without Music
  85. ‘don’t tell me that I mourn too much’
  86. All Things Pass
  87. Earth
  88. On Death
  89. Gone from My Sight
  90. The Wheel
  91. Live Your Life
  92. Prayer
  93. Old Irish Toast
  94. For My Own Tomb-stone
  95. Notes
  96. Acknowledgements
  97. JULIA WATSON
  98. THIS IS JUST THE BEGINNING

And to the God who cut your life short, pray

That he as early to your sight restore me

As from my own he swept you far away.

Luis de Camoëns (1527–80),
translated from the Portuguese by
Roy Campbell

In Memoriam E. S.

Ah most unreliable of all women of grace

in the breathless hurry of your leave-taking

you forgot – you forgot for ever – our last embrace.

George Barker (1913–91)

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WORN FEATURES OF ANCESTRAL MOULD …

To live in the hearts of those we leave behind is not to die.

inscription on a headstone in
Lytham St Annes, Lancashire

Highland Graveyard

Today a fine old face has gone under the soil;

For generations past women hereabouts have borne

Her same name and stamp of feature.

Her brief identity was not her own

But theirs who formed and sent her out

To wear the proud bones of her clan, and live its story,

Who now receive back into the ground

Worn features of ancestral mould.

A dry-stone wall bounds off the dislimned clay

Of many an old face forgotten and young face gone

From boundless nature, sea and sky.

A wind-withered escalonia like a song

Of ancient tenderness lives on

Some woman’s living fingers set as shelter for the dead, to tell

In evergreen unwritten leaves,

In scent of leaves in western rain

That one remembered who is herself forgotten.

Many songs they knew who now are silent.

Into their memories the dead are gone

Who haunt the living in an ancient tongue

Sung by old voices to the young,

Telling of sea and isles, of boat and byre and glen;

And from their music the living are reborn

Into a remembered land,

To call ancestral memories home

And all that ancient grief and love our own.

Kathleen Raine (1908–2003)

‘Another and another and another’

Another and another and another

And still another sunset and sunrise,

The same yet different, different yet the same,

Seen by me now in my declining years

As in my early childhood, youth and manhood;

And by my parents and my parents’ parents,

And by the parents of my parents’ parents,

And by their parents counted back for ever,

Seen, all their lives long, even as now by me;

And by my children and my children’s children

And by the children of my children’s children

And by their children counted on for ever

Still to be seen as even now seen by me;

Clear and bright sometimes, sometimes dark and clouded

But still the same sunsetting and sunrise;

The same for ever to the never ending

Line of observers, to the same observer

Through all the changes of his life the same:

Sunsetting and sunrising and sunsetting,

And then again sunrising and sunsetting,

Sunrising and sunsetting evermore.

James Henry (1798–1876)

‘Fear no more the heat o’ the sun’

Fear no more the heat o’ the sun,

Nor the furious winter’s rages,

Thou thy worldly task hast done

Home art gone and ta’en thy wages.