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Chapters (98)
  1. Cover
  2. About the Author
  3. Foreword
  4. REMEMBER ME WHEN I AM GONE AWAY …
  5. ‘Remember me when I am gone away’
  6. Heaven-Haven
  7. Life Goes On
  8. Living Each Day
  9. ‘Death is nothing at all’
  10. Remember Me
  11. ‘I’m here for a short visit only’
  12. ‘No longer mourn for me when I am dead’
  13. If Death is Kind
  14. Fare Well
  15. When I Died
  16. ‘Because I could not stop for Death’
  17. ‘I see myself now at the end of my journey’
  18. Requiem
  19. ‘I thought I’d write my own obituary’
  20. Think of Me Then
  21. The New Path
  22. Footprints in the Sand
  23. The Book
  24. The Legacy
  25. ‘A thing of beauty is a joy for ever’
  26. When I Have Fears
  27. A Song of Living
  28. ‘I should like to be buried in a summer forest’
  29. ‘I would not have a god come in’
  30. I’ve Made Out a Will
  31. Coda
  32. Rest
  33. Prayer
  34. A TINY LAMP HAS GONE OUT IN MY TENT …
  35. ‘You must not shut the night inside you’
  36. Prayer for the Little Daughter between Death and Burial
  37. Epitaph on a Child
  38. On the Death of a Child
  39. Four Candles
  40. Too Soon
  41. Requiescat
  42. ‘Promise you won’t forget about me, ever’
  43. HE WAS MY NORTH, MY SOUTH, MY EAST AND WEST …
  44. Funeral Blues
  45. ‘Music, when soft voices die’
  46. ‘As birds are fitted to the boughs’
  47. Farewell, Sweet Dust
  48. Echo
  49. The Kaleidoscope
  50. Verses Written on Her Deathbed at Bath to Her Husband in London
  51. A Widow’s Hymn
  52. ‘Time does not bring relief’
  53. Tomorrows
  54. ‘Never more will the wind’
  55. Marriage and Death
  56. Inseparable
  57. ‘Dear gentle soul, who went so soon away’
  58. In Memoriam E. S.
  59. WORN FEATURES OF ANCESTRAL MOULD …
  60. Highland Graveyard
  61. ‘Another and another and another’
  62. ‘Fear no more the heat o’ the sun’
  63. ‘By ways remote and distant waters sped’
  64. ‘Like as the waves make towards the pebbled shore’
  65. Elegy
  66. I Wish You Enough
  67. While I Slept
  68. ‘Do not go gentle into that good night’
  69. Coat
  70. ‘The rooms and days we wandered through’
  71. The Friend
  72. ‘You can shed tears that she is gone’
  73. Inside Our Dreams
  74. Traditional Gaelic Blessing
  75. TO EVERY THING THERE IS A SEASON …
  76. ‘To every thing there is a season’
  77. ‘Our revels now are ended’
  78. So Many Different Lengths of Time
  79. ‘Come, fill the Cup’
  80. ‘Remember now thy Creator in the days of thy youth’
  81. ‘Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels’
  82. ‘Death be not proud’
  83. ‘Home is where one starts from’
  84. Dirge without Music
  85. ‘don’t tell me that I mourn too much’
  86. All Things Pass
  87. Earth
  88. On Death
  89. Gone from My Sight
  90. The Wheel
  91. Live Your Life
  92. Prayer
  93. Old Irish Toast
  94. For My Own Tomb-stone
  95. Notes
  96. Acknowledgements
  97. JULIA WATSON
  98. THIS IS JUST THE BEGINNING

So that our edges blur, and to and fro

A little wind-borne trade plies, filtering over,

Bartering our atoms when fair breezes blow.

Though, not like waters met and inter-running,

Our peoples dwell each under different sky,

Here at high, unsurveyed, dissolving frontiers

We cannot prove: ‘This is you, this is I.’

Oh now in you, no more in myself only

And God, I partly live, and seem to have died,

So given up, entered and entering wholly

(To cross the threshold is to be inside),

And wonder if at last, each through each far dispersed,

We shall die easily who loved this dying first.

E. J. Scovell (1907–99)

Inseparable

When thou and I are dead, my dear,

The earth above us lain;

When we no more in autumn hear

The fall of leaves and rain,

Or round the snow-enshrouded year

The midnight winds complain;

When we no more in green mid-spring,

Its sights and sounds may mind, –

The warm wet leaves set quivering

With touches of the wind,

The birds at morn, and birds that sing

When day is left behind;

When, over all, the moonlight lies,

Intensely bright and still;

When some meandering brooklet sighs

At parting from its hill,

And scents from voiceless gardens rise,

The peaceful air to fill;

When we no more through summer light

The deep dim woods discern,

Nor hear the nightingales at night,

In vehement singing, yearn

To stars and moon, that dumb and bright,

In nightly vigil burn;

When smiles and hopes and joys and fears

And words that lovers say,

And sighs of love, and passionate tears

Are lost to us, for aye, –

What thing of all our love appears,

In cold and coffin’d clay?

When all their kisses, sweet and close,

Our lips shall quite forget;

When, where the day upon us rose,

The day shall rise and set,

While we for love’s sublime repose,

Shall have not one regret, –

Oh, this true comfort is, I think,

That, be death near or far,

When we have crossed the fatal brink,

And found nor moon nor star,

We know not, when in death we sink,

The lifeless things we are.

Yet one thought is, I deem, more kind,

That when we sleep so well,

On memories that we leave behind

When kindred souls shall dwell,

My name to thine in words they’ll bind

Of love inseparable.

Philip Bourke Marston (1850–87)

‘Dear gentle soul, who went so soon away’

Dear gentle soul, who went so soon away

Departing from this life in discontent,

Repose in that far sky to which you went

While on this earth I linger in dismay.

In the ethereal seat where you must be,

If you consent to memories of our sphere,

Recall the love which, burning pure and clear,

So often in my eyes you used to see!

If then, in the incurable, long anguish

Of having lost you, as I pine and languish,

You see some merit – do this favour for me: