I couldn’t get the thought out of my head. The worst of it was that I knew it was true. I felt horrible, and if I had a drink the feeling would go away. I’d regret it in the long run, I’d feel as bad and worse again in the long run, but so what? In the long run we’re all dead.

I remembered something I’d heard at a meeting. Mary, one of the regulars at St. Paul’s, had said it. She was a birdlike woman with a tiny voice, always well dressed and well groomed and soft-spoken. I’d heard her qualify once, and evidently she’d been the next thing to a shopping-bag lady before she hit bottom.

One night, speaking from the floor, she’d said, “You know, it was a revelation to me to learn that I don’t have to be comfortable. Nowhere is it written that I must be comfortable. I always thought if I felt nervous or anxious or unhappy I had to do something about it. But I learned that’s not true. Bad feelings won’t kill me. Alcohol will kill me, but my feelings won’t.”

The train plunged into the tunnel. As it dropped below ground level all the lights went out for a moment. Then they came back on again. I could hear Mary, pronouncing each word very precisely. I could see her, her fine-boned hands resting one on top of the other in her lap as she spoke.

Funny what comes to mind.

When I emerged from the subway station at Columbus Circle I still wanted a drink. I walked past a couple of bars and went to my meeting.

The speaker was a big beefy Irishman from Bay Ridge. He looked like a cop, and it turned out he’d been one, retiring after twenty years and currently supplementing his city pension as a security guard. Alcohol never interfered with his job or his marriage, but after a certain number of years it began to get to him physically. His capacity decreased, his hangovers worsened, and a doctor told him his liver was enlarged.

“He told me the booze was threatening my life,” he said. “Well, I wasn’t some derelict, I wasn’t some degenerate drunk, I wasn’t some guy who had to drink to get rid of the blues. I was just your normal happy-go-lucky guy who liked a shot an’ a beer after work and a six-pack in front of the television set. So if it’s gonna kill me, the hell with it, right? I walked out of that doctor’s office and resolved to stop drinking. And eight years later that’s just what I did.”