Chapters (45)
- Cover Page
- The Scent of Your Breath
- Dedication
- ONE
- TWO
- THREE
- FOUR
- FIVE
- SIX
- SEVEN
- EIGHT
- NINE
- TEN
- ELEVEN
- TWELVE
- THIRTEEN
- FOURTEEN
- FIFTEEN
- SIXTEEN
- SEVENTEEN
- EIGHTEEN
- NINETEEN
- TWENTY
- TWENTY-ONE
- TWENTY-TWO
- TWENTY-THREE
- TWENTY-FOUR
- TWENTY-FIVE
- TWENTY-SIX
- TWENTY-SEVEN
- TWENTY-EIGHT
- TWENTY-NINE
- THIRTY
- THIRTY-ONE
- THIRTY-TWO
- THIRTY-THREE
- THIRTY-FOUR
- THIRTY-FIVE
- THIRTY-SIX
- THIRTY-SEVEN
- THIRTY-EIGHT
- THIRTY-NINE
- FORTY
- FORTY-ONE
- ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
I stare at him and imagine him looking at her, I work my way inside him and hear his thoughts, telling him over and over to leave me. At this moment he’s thinking that I’m making his life difficult, but as far as I’m concerned that’s the last thing I want. Right now I just want to analyze, understand, and take possession of all the security I lack. I know, I know, at any moment he’s going to slam the door and he’ll never come back, he’ll leave me bleeding and faded on this floor, I’ll gradually disappear and stop annoying him. But right now he’s got to take my hands and reassure me.
As for him, he’s not the kind to withdraw from a discussion. He’s the kind of person who likes to reason, to make me reason, but he can’t do it. He can’t say, “OK, you’re being a pain in the ass, so I’m out of here”—that’s not his way. He stays here with me and looks at me and sometimes smiles at me without resentment. I hate his goodness, his tolerance. He makes me feel so unworthy, so wretched and pitiful, with my tendency to hide, to seek refuge, to sink my face into the pillow, to escape my problems. I’m not capable of being so self-possessed, so empathetic.
Then he takes my hands and whispers, “I love only you.”
I don’t believe him. Not for a moment.
Don’t ask me why, don’t tell me—forget it. I just don’t believe him.
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Then he talks to me about freedom. He says he lacks it. He says I’m tearing off his wings. How naive of me—I thought I was his freedom, that I was his wings, and that with me he’d be able to go wherever he wanted; he would have stayed perched on my back and guided me among the clouds, among the storms; together we would have looked down on buildings from on high and laughed at the stupid, impotent men struggling on the streets, dragging themselves along like sacks of potatoes.
He tells me he has the right to meet whomever he feels like and that isn’t why his love will shrink. He just says, “You’ve got to trust me.”
As for me, I have the right to die, to destroy myself, to feel my belly crumbling, to go mad and meet my ghosts, to become their puppet.
I have the right to yield to instinct. I have the right to cry and feel good as I do so. I also have the right to think that if he feels suffocated, clearly I’m no longer the delicate, flowing wave that softened and dissolved him. It means that I’m the storm now and he’s alone and he can’t find shelter anywhere.