Back The Dating Game
Chapters (54)
  1. Cover
  2. Back Cover Text
  3. Praise
  4. Booklist
  5. About the Author
  6. Dedication
  7. Part One
  8. Chapter One
  9. Chapter Two
  10. Chapter Three
  11. Chapter Four
  12. Chapter Five
  13. Chapter Six
  14. Chapter Seven
  15. Chapter Eight
  16. Chapter Nine
  17. Part Two
  18. Chapter Ten
  19. Chapter Eleven
  20. Chapter Twelve
  21. Chapter Thirteen
  22. Chapter Fourteen
  23. Chapter Fifteen
  24. Chapter Sixteen
  25. Chapter Seventeen
  26. Chapter Eighteen
  27. Chapter Nineteen
  28. Chapter Twenty
  29. Chapter Twenty-One
  30. Part Three
  31. Chapter Twenty-Two
  32. Chapter Twenty-Three
  33. Chapter Twenty-Four
  34. Chapter Twenty-Five
  35. Chapter Twenty-Six
  36. Chapter Twenty-Seven
  37. Chapter Twenty-Eight
  38. Chapter Twenty-Nine
  39. Chapter Thirty
  40. Chapter Thirty-One
  41. Chapter Thirty-Two
  42. Chapter Thirty-Three
  43. Part Four
  44. Chapter Thirty-Four
  45. Chapter Thirty-Five
  46. Chapter Thirty-Six
  47. Chapter Thirty-Seven
  48. Chapter Thirty-Eight
  49. Chapter Thirty-Nine
  50. Chapter Forty
  51. Chapter Forty-One
  52. Epilogue
  53. Author’s Note
  54. Acknowledgments

“It’s fine. We were just about to start,” the reporter, Nancy Lang, says. I’ve watched her on the local news for years, so I feel like I know her well, although we’ve met only one time in person, when she requested this exclusive interview for the relaunch. “Okay,” she says. “We’ll do a sit-down with all three of you here, and then individual interviews, followed by some B roll around campus, in your dorm rooms, on the quad and in classrooms and so on,” she says. “Sound good?”

“Sure,” Sara says.

I nod. I try to remember exactly how messy my room is right now, and wonder if there’s time to text my roommate to tidy up. But of course, in front of the camera I just smile, because what am I going to say—sorry, but my laundry is on my floor, we can’t film?

“Let’s get started.” Nancy’s crew helps rig me up with a microphone, and then spends a very long time adjusting the lighting in ways so small that I don’t notice a difference, although they definitely do.

“Okay, I was thinking you guys could tell us a little bit about the app, and then I’ll ask you a few questions.”

I nod, and a red light clicks on above the camera.

“So, Roberto and Sara, as I understand it, you were at the helm of one of the fastest-growing dating apps in the world. And then, in what seemed like an instant, you took it off-line. Why?” she asks. “What happened?”

Sara looks to me and I nod; she can answer this one. She’s had more of a journey answering that question for herself.

“Well...” She repositions the way she’s sitting. “We realized that the product we were making was not having the sort of impact we had hoped. Our initial product, which was called Perfect10, hinged around individuals having a ranking of desirability. And we started to see the detrimental effects it was having on almost all our users. When we realized this, and that the problem was at the core of the algorithm, we had no choice but to shut it down,” Sara explains.

“What’s more,” she continues, “the app wasn’t doing what it initially promised, which was to help people find love. Finding true love is not about hundreds of people thinking you’re desirable, but about connecting deeply with the people who are right for you. No one is objectively more lovable than someone else. It’s about finding the right person and building a strong partnership with them. So we set out to build a new product, something that will promote that sort of connection.” She turns to me.