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The husband’s not my husband, but the stuff is his stuff . . .
Careful What You Wish For is about professional organizer Emily Harlow, whose husband, Frank, drives her crazy with the stuff he brings home from yard sales. Like Emily, I’m married to a world-champion yard sale-er. Every Friday night my husband scours the internet for listings near us, with top priority going to yard sales featuring old books. He’s also a sucker for vintage electric fans and radios. There will never be enough shelves and closets in our house for his finds. He doesn’t have a filing system so much as a piling system.
I’m not a collector. When I run out of shelf space in my office, I donate books to my library book sale. I devoured Marie Kondo’s The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up. Her advice to “keep only those things that speak to your heart” resonates. In no time, she had me culling my wardrobe and following her detailed instructions for folding my socks—in thirds, starting at the toe, and then in half so they stood at attention. In retrospect, I have mixed feelings about whether this was actually a good use of my time, and that’s how Careful What You Wish For opens, with Emily gazing into her newly sorted sock drawer and wondering if it “sparks joy.”
As I was sock sorting, I came across my mother’s reading glasses. Did she need them? Hardly—she’s been dead for decades. Did they spark joy? Not really. Still, I couldn’t throw them away. When I went to a meeting of the New England chapter of the National Association of Productivity and Organizing Professionals (NAPO) and met professional organizer Kathy Vines, she introduced me to the term “sticky” to describe those ostensibly useless objects—like my mother’s reading glasses—that connect to us emotionally. Sticky things are hard to let go.