Chapters (49)
Rina nodded. “Maybe it’s true. Maybe it’s on Gershon’s mind. Or maybe it’s all in his mind. There’s more to my tale.” She sighed. “About six months ago, he declared himself a Nazir.”
“What’s a Nazir?”
“Remember Samson of Samson and Delilah fame? He was a Nazir. That’s why his hair was so long. You’ve heard of Jesus of Nazareth?”
“Slightly.”
“Some say Jesus was a Nazir—a Nazirite, I think they call it in English. If I remember correctly, Nazirites take this vow which is: They don’t drink wine or alcohol, they don’t shave or cut their hair, and they don’t defile themselves by contacting dead bodies—”
Decker laughed.
“What?”
“I’m listening to you thinking: Hey, I could manage the alcohol and hair part, but I’m not so sure I could take that ban on dead bodies—”
“No joke. You couldn’t do what you do and be a Nazir, Peter. You come into contact with dead bodies on a regular basis.”
Decker paused. She was absolutely right.
“The ban on dead bodies also means that Nazirites can’t visit cemeteries or hospitals—anyplace where a person might have died.”
Decker held her at arm’s length. “This is for real?”
Rina nodded. “Wait, it gets weirder. Gershon not only took the vows to be a Nazir, he separated from his wife.”
“Ah, so they are in the process of a divorce.”
“Oh, no. I didn’t mean that kind of separation. I meant a physical separation. The Rebbe wouldn’t come out and say it, but I think he meant sex. I think Gershon refuses to have sex with his wife. Now, I’m no expert on Nazirites—you’ll have to ask Rav Schulman for the specific details—but I never remember anything about Nazirites not being allowed to have sex with their wives.”
Decker stared at her. “You know, I meet a lot of strange people in my line of work. But I do believe you’ve introduced me to the strangest.”
“Peter, it isn’t funny. The Rebbe says that Honey is really suffering. She doesn’t know why he’s doing this to her—to himself. Because he refuses to talk to anyone.”
“Did she tell the Rebbe about the strange phone calls?”
Rina nodded.
“What’d the Master say?”
“The Rebbe said that they should be careful.”
“Profound.”
“Peter, I don’t know what to do.”
“What to do?” Decker smiled. “That part’s easy. We’re doing enough by letting this woman and her kids stay with us. We’re not obliged to do anything more.”
“Peter, that sounds so cold.”
“I’m not saying kick her out. I’m just saying don’t be her shrink, okay?”
Rina didn’t answer.
Decker looked her in the eye. “Okay, Rina?”
“I shouldn’t listen to her problems?”